Living180 Services

Couples Marriage Counseling

All of us know someone affected by divorce. What if someone had been willing to walk with them through their crisis before they divorced? Would things have turned out differently?

Unlike a clinical counseling firm, Paul and Suzanne do not clock in and out, billing couples by the hour, but “walk” with couples on a daily basis while trusting God to provide the needed funds. Their goal is to never turn aside a couple in crisis.

“We are able to do this because we’ve been there ourselves. God redeemed our broken relationship and brought harmony to our marriage. God brought people into our lives that walked with us in a spirit of gentleness and we want to do the same with others.”

Men Sexual Compulsion/ Addiction Freedom


In 2004, Paul confessed to Suzanne his sexual compulsion/addiction that started at a very young age and grew even through becoming a Christian, graduating from Bible College, getting married, becoming a pastor then a missionary, and being a father of 4 with 3 grandchildren.

Paul’s background in theology and his personal struggle gives him a unique approach to getting to the heart of “the how” and “the why” things can become out of control to seemingly “normal” people around their sexual acting out. Even though this is problem with both men and women Paul’s passion is to work with men to find their freedom.

Paul was trained by Patrick Carnes through the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP). In 2012, he was certified as a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP). In 2014, he became a PSAP-S which means he has been recognized by IITAP as someone who can be a supervisor to those trying to get the PSAP certification.

For more information contact Paul at paul@living180ministries.org

  • If you are looking for someone to help your organization grow and want a life coach to work with your staff.

  • If you’re experiencing struggles in your marriage, but your spouse doesn’t want to work on the marriage.

  • If you have experienced struggles in your finances or have an unhealthy view of money.

  • If you are unhappy with the way that your body looks and acknowledge that you need to make some healthy changes.

  • If you’re struggling to find balance and can’t seem to manage all that you have on your plate.

  • If you need to find meaning and purpose in your life or maybe even do not know who you are anymore.

  • If you have had some kind of crisis in your life and you need to find direction, meaning and purpose.

Let us help navigate you through a season of transformation. Suzanne, and Paul, were missionaries for 18 years and have been Crisis Marriage Counselors since 2010. Suzanne (Suzi) decided to add Oola Life Coach to their ministry’s services to reach more people to concentrate on balancing 7 key areas of life which actually affects every relationship and everything we experience in life. Let us help navigate you to the life you always dreamed of having, help your organization become more motivated, positive and productive.

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Life coaching

Premarital Mentoring/ Counseling

Paul and Suzanne have been married since 1986 and for the first 18 years they “loved hard and fought hard”. In 2004, things came crashing down and they were heading for divorce. They sought help and were able to restore what Satan was trying to destroy. Since 2010, they have walked with over 180 couples out of their own crisis which when put together with their crisis gives them a powerful message to the couple wanting to “do it right” the first time or for those who are on second/third marriages and want to “do it different this time”.

Their unique approach of preparing a couple, as a couple, for the complexities of marriage is not a program, but rather something that is designed uniquely to each couple. It is a real and refreshing approach. They believe that most premarital counseling only addresses the obvious, is very optimistic and does not prepare the couple who is infatuated with each other in their engagement for the realities of becoming “one flesh”.

They require a minimum of six sessions (12 hours) but are open to more if desired or needed for each couple.

For more information contact the Talley’s at info@living180ministries.org

Business Mentoring and Conflict Resolution

Paul has a set of skills and strategies used to support peoples’ ability to engage in, manage, or productively resolve conflict. He has been a private mentor, couples mentor, and business mediator for over 20 years. He specializes in high-conflict personal and professional dispute resolution and conflict resolution as well as working with high conflict and conflict communication with businesses, couples, and families.

As a professional, Paul has worked as an International Missions Director supervising 18 ministries in 7 different countries, owned 2 businesses, and co-founded Christian Marriages in Crisis (CMIC) in 2010, a ministry geared to couples in high-conflict and headed for divorce.

Paul is a confidential listener that helps the business owner to see the situation from all perspectives, supports in considering options, and helps to develop a plan of action to deal with conflict. He provides additional clarity about each situation, enabling the ability to effectively and confidently make high-quality decisions to manage conflict. He also helps rehearse conversations so that the business owner is prepared to more confidently enter into a conflict resolution discussion.

For more information contact Paul at paul@living180ministries.org

Support for the Local Church

Living180 comes alongside churches as Paul and Suzanne do with couples in crisis. With the divorce rate just as high, if not higher than in marriages outside the church, we believe they can be used as a great asset to the church. They desire to aid, support, encourage, and train churches in working with marriages in their church.

Paul and Suzanne’s unique approach to helping marriages grow so they do not end up in a “crisis” is real and refreshing. Each church’s needs are different and as a result we offer a variety of help: